Unfortunately the wheels I like only come in 8J and 10J varieties...
I also spoke to Nils who is selling the Suzuka Grey S8, he's had about 10 sets of wheels on that thing so far, and also confirmed 10J will be fine.
Because of the type of tyres I like (Vredesdens) they come with a decent rim protector, there appearance of stretch will be minimal (I previously ran 235s on 10.5Js) on my cabriolet, now that was stretch...
I'm not planning on lowering this car, not any more than the stock air system allows at least so rubbing shouldn't be an issue.
Thanks for the replies