Those look like pretty standard connectors, they're supposed to be easy to release but I always struggle. Hate the things. 
You basically press that sort of rectangular cage structure in towards the wiring with your thumb then pull the whole connector up and off. It's a sort of lever pivoted a little way down with a small catch on the other end.
But it can get a bit stuck...
I think if you can somehow press down a bit on the whole connector while pressing on the release catch it frees up more easily. But you then need to maintain sideways pressure to keep the latch open while changing from pressing down to pulling up. Easier than it sounds.
Maybe there's a tool to do it? 
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2003 D2 FL S8. Irish Green Pearl/Beige. Solar sunroof, auto-dim mirrors, electric rear seat functions and extended leather. Ski hatch retrofit. Aftermarket reversing camera. DVB-T and XCarlink now removed as redundant.
2016 Volvo V40 T5 Cross Country (4WD) with ALL the toys including adaptive cruise etc. etc. Osmium Grey with Blonde/Charcoal leather interior. Polestar performance "optimisation".  (Even rarer than a D2 S8!) Oh, and a brand new engine at just under 30,000 miles on the factory one! 
Finally: gone, but not forgotten.....
1998 D2 PF S8. Agate Grey/Platinum. Every option (I think) except electric rear seats, Tiptronic steering wheel, ski hatch, towbar & dimming door mirrors.
e.g. Cruise control, NavPlus/TV, Bose, GSM, Xenons, Solar roof, Parking sensors, Alcantara/leather everywhere of course.  (internal dimming mirror added later)
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And before that a lot of Rover 800s, a few oddities, a lovely Triumph Dolomite 1850HL with Overdrive and way back in my schooldays an Austin Seven aka Mini 850!
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