Thanks tonupkid and Psyche,
Yep, I don't have bluetooth and the 8 isn't installed with the phone or tyre pressure monitors.
I've got most of the parts I need, see pic, all except VCDS. Total spent £284 for all new parts
I am thinking I may update the MMI all the way to 5150, install AMI, finally update to 5570 in the hope that I don't have to code the AMI as I'm planning to keep the CD changer.